two weeks ago

at this time i was on the road heading to 'our new house'
in two weeks its become a home. very happy indeed.

We've made good friends with the people next door. even if he was here everyday. i didn't mind. DH did. but DH is a very private person and i've spent two years as a SHAM and got a tad lonely. once DH is at work if the bloke next door 'D' wants to pop round he can. its nice for me to have company. even if they are mocking my uber white legs via the siprice pines.

D is an interesting one.
his home life was fucked up until his father ended his own life. D saw this (and if he told us the truth) told his father to eather pull the trigger or he'd do it himself (his father used to beat his mum, who i get along with really well) D also suffers from shaken baby syndrome (thanks to his dad) and ADHD. he's not really good with boundrys. but then again he's a country boy so his idea of rocking up into your back yard isn't a strange one. he's good with the kids too. he's also the hunter gather-er type as well. he (proudly) showed me a fox he shot and then promptly removed its while i was there and asked me to pluck the feathers off some quail he'd caught too. (and suppriseingly i didn't flinch!) he's back at work today. but his work is this and that as D is also elitterit. (bah i cant spell :/ ) so i've been told if he sticks his head over the fence it may be to read a text message for him. but i dont mind. he also told me if anything happens to his mum i'll cop the knock at the door of "feed me, wash my clothes and buy my condoms" yes he did say that to me LOL.

in other news i've had a few mood swings here and there. mainly due to FIL and his twattery. he's caused a fight between DH and I due to house work (again) and i flared up. FIL and some warped idea of the women does ALL the house work. yes i should do more (and i am now too) but the last 2 years have been freaking hard. a child who was slow (now been called "angel man syndrome") has not been easy. SOL has had a normal baby (thus far) and is 'copeing' massive supprise there...NOT.
Bah i'll be back D's just rocked up.